Hey My Love
Letters for the days you don’t want to feel alone
I’m Tonia, a Finnish mom, singer and writer of soft late-night letters. I write as if I were talking to someone I love – if you want, that someone can be you.
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Hey my love,
I write about my everyday life and feelings, as if I were talking to you, my long-distance love. I hope my letters make you feel the same warmth I feel knowing that you’re reading them.
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Hey my love, This week our home has slowly started to glow.We’ve been hanging the last strings of lights, placing little Christmas decorations here and there — tiny stars on shelves, soft lights in the windows, little hints that the year is wrapping itself gently around us. Somewhere between all that, I’ve written two more…
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Hey my love, I feel like I’ve lived three weeks inside one weekend, and now I’m writing to you from under a blanket, finally still. Let me curl up next to you in words and tell you how it’s been. On Friday I went straight from work to our staff Christmas party.The atmosphere was warm…
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Hey my love, This morning I stood in the kitchen, half asleep, making coffee… absolutely convinced it was Wednesday.When I finally realised it was already Thursday, I almost laughed out loud. No wonder I feel like the week has just slipped through my fingers — it really has. The days have gone by so quickly…
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Hey my love, I didn’t sleep enough last night.You know that heavy kind of tired, where the alarm rings and it feels like you’ve only just closed your eyes? That was me this morning — staring at my phone, trying to convince my body that yes, we really do have to get up now. So…
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Hey my love, This morning felt soft in a way I really needed.No rush, no chaos — just a quiet apartment, a warm cup of coffee in my hands and that slow, sleepy feeling of a new day beginning. I sat there for a moment, still wrapped in that early silence, sipping my coffee and…
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Hey my love, Tonight I’m writing to you from somewhere in between.Not from a forever home, not from a fresh new beginning – but from that strange quiet place where you’re still waiting to see what happens next. Maybe you know that place too. This morning I woke up in our little rental, with a…
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Hey my love, Today was my last day of beautiful family chaos before the quiet week begins. Somehow that makes every tiny moment feel a little louder, a little brighter — like my heart is trying to memorise it all before the volume suddenly drops. This morning was slow and soft. The little ones climbed…
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Hey my love, This week has felt like one long, messy, beautiful heartbeat.I thought I’d sit down and tell you about it — the way I would if you were lying next to me, and I was tracing shapes on your hand while I talked. The days have been starting slowly, in the best way.I’ve…
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Hey my love, I don’t know who you are yet.Maybe you’re reading this in bed, on the couch after a long day, or on your phone somewhere between “I’m fine” and “I really wish someone would ask how I am”. So let me ask:How was your day? Really. I started this blog because I realised…